
what interior design means to me
This page isn’t about selling a service. I’m not an interior designer. I’m a woman who has walked through healing, motherhood, change, and faith, and who has learned that the spaces we live in often mirror the state of our hearts. Here, I share how I’ve shaped my home with healing in mind and how you can begin creating your own sanctuary with intentional decorating, one corner at a time.
A Home That Heals
What I know now is that our spaces can be medicine. A quiet bedroom with warm light can soothe a tired nervous system. A tidy kitchen with space to cook can reignite your creativity. A clean entryway can invite peace the moment you step inside. Design doesn’t have to be extravagant. It just has to be intentional.
Designing with Intention (Not Perfection)
When I approach a room, I don’t ask, “How can I make this look impressive?” I ask, “How can this space support how I want to feel?” Do I want to feel restful? Energized? Connected? Safe? Inspired? Once I have the answer, the design flows from there. And you don’t need a big budget or a design degree to do this. You just need a little clarity and a lot of grace.
Here are some ways I use intentional decorating in my spaces:
- Lighting: Soft, natural light is everything. I use sheer curtains to let it in and warm-toned lamps to create a glow in the evenings. I avoid harsh overhead lighting when I can. Lighting sets the mood, so make it match the energy you want in the room.
- Color: Your walls don’t have to be bold to be beautiful. I gravitate toward calming neutrals and earthy tones, colors that invite rest and presence. Paint is one of the simplest ways to transform a space without overspending.
- Texture: I layer in softness wherever I can: plush blankets, woven baskets, natural rugs, and linen bedding. Texture brings warmth and life to even the most minimal rooms.
- Scent: Scent is memory. I use essential oils, simmer pots, and candles to create a sense of grounding. Different rooms often carry different aromas depending on their purpose.
- Sound: Music, white noise, or complete stillness, it all matters. I often keep a playlist on in the kitchen while cooking or set the tone with high-frequency sounds during spiritual practices. Sound is a subtle design element that shifts energy fast.
- Space to Breathe: Not every corner needs to be filled. One of the most healing things you can do in your home is create space: for movement, for rest, for pause. Bottom line: decluttering is necessary to allow your soul to rest.
When You’re Starting From Scratch
Start with
- One drawer
- One shelf
- One corner
- Light a candle
- Open a window
Rearrange the furniture to make it feel a little more like you. Not the you you used to be; the you you’re becoming. When I was starting over, I couldn’t afford to redesign everything. But I could create one soft spot to rest. One tidy surface that made me feel proud. One ritual to begin again. You don’t need a Pinterest-perfect plan. You just need a little room to breathe, and the permission to begin slowly, with grace.
Need a guiding hand? My blog, The Art of Coffee Table Decor, is the perfect place to start. A coffee table is a small section that can have a big impact on your living space. I’ll walk you through some tips and tricks to style it exactly the way you want.
The Spiritual Side of Interior Design
From decor that resonates with my faith to sacred corners, I intentionally weave my spiritual life into my physical surroundings. You’ll find crystals beside cookbooks, prayer cards tucked into mirror frames, and handwritten affirmations by the bed. To me, these aren’t just decorations; they’re reminders of the life I’m cultivating.
I encourage you to explore what makes your space feel spiritually safe. Whether it’s a candle you light every morning, a meditation nook in your closet, or a vase filled with fresh herbs, your home can become a sacred extension of your inner work.
Designing Through Life’s Seasons
That’s the beauty of design; it doesn’t have to stay the same.
You’re allowed to shift things as you grow. Maybe your living room becomes a playroom for a while. Maybe your bedroom becomes your sanctuary after a loss. Maybe your kitchen becomes a gathering space again after years of eating alone.
Your home is not a finished product. It’s a living, breathing reflection of your current season. And there’s so much peace in honoring that. Let your space rise to meet you where you are, not where you were, and not where you think you’re supposed to be. Just here. Just now. Looking for inspiration to get you started? Check out my blog, How To Find Home Decor Inspiration That Speaks to You.
My Home,
My Journey
Want to learn more about my journey in finding and building a home? My book Rising Above Adversity: Nurturing and Healing Your Inner Child details my path of healing, finding a home, and working toward inner peace.
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